Sex Work Is Psychotherapy

Sex Workers Are Psychotherapists

This Washington Post story is a hodgepodge about destigmatization and internal authority, neither of which is very interesting.  But the writer misses the main point about sex work (hooking):  It’s about giving psychotherapy. Hooking in and of itself is not really riveting:  So many people work on the margins.  If they are not doing it…

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Is Stormy Daniels a Prostitute?

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Is Stormy Daniels a prostitute?  This question has now been answered in the affirmative by the online media, and it is generally assumed that Trump gave her money for the one time (or few times) that he had sex with her. Pornography Is Lucrative Here is a fact that has not really been brought out…

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Anti-Semitism and Porn

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Thank you to Mira Fox for recently publishing the article, The antisemitic conspiracy behind the anti-porn movement, in Forward Magazine. I’d like to make several points on the subject: I have never seen “Jewishness” featured as a theme in porn. This would, I suppose, be classed as philo-Semitism, if it ever happened.  But it seems not…

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Where Do the Legs Go?

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It’s hard to tell who gives more awful sex advice: the media or the experts.   Much of the media’s depiction of sex seems directed at 14-year-olds, who can’t figure out where the legs go.  The experts seem completely hung up on making people feel good about themselves, which is not really the name of…

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You’d Be Lucky to Find a Valentine Like Stormy Daniels

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Today is Valentine’s Day!  And a number of readers of my book Stormy’s World are asking themselves, has Stormy Daniels ruined this special day with lust rather than love? Mais non!  Not at all!  For Stormy, every day is Valentine’s Day!  She has never been a figurehead for emotionless coupling.  Those deep eyes breathe attachment,…

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Twin Obsessions: Big Breasts and Erotomania

Big Beautiful Women Attract the Unhinged Aurora Snow’s Daily Beast piece, “Inside Porn’s Scary Death-Threat Epidemic: ‘You’re Always Looking Over Your Shoulder,’” is psychologically perceptive:  BBW (Big Beautiful Women) attract the unhinged.  There are lots of targets these days for the unhinged, from the Democratic candidates to the local high school.  But why would these marginalized…

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Watching Porn on Government Time

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Has Porn Been Seen in Government? Watching porn on a government computer!  How awful! What if a deputy assistant attorney general, or another government official, had checked their Facebook or Twitter accounts or played Candy Crush instead? Playing on company time? How horrid! Porn and Baseball For that matter, what if they had watched baseball…

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Stormy’s World: Inside Porn by Edward Shorter

Exciting News to Share My history of the adult entertainment industry has just been published, and the book is now available on Amazon. It’s the first serious history of the industry ever written, and my original idea was to call it, “A History of the Adult Entertainment Industry,” but then, my agent said,  “No, we’re not…

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